A flip of my weekly calendar page showed that I had my hair appointment on Wednesday with my usual cut and highlights - all the good stuff. Sure enough, I walked out of there feeling fabulous, and that feeling has stayed with me since then. Nothing has changed except for my hair - I had more layers cut into it to take advantage of my natural waves, and of course the highlights brighten everything up. But that's it - my stomach still looks the same, my clothes still fit the same...and yet? I feel lighter, and my mood is much better.
During - all foiled up with highlights.
After - laughing because I tried to get my hairdresser in the shot with me and she literally dove out of sight yelling "NOOOOOOO!" (her hair wasn't done, haha).
Can a haircut really make that much of a difference? I have to say yes, and I bet a lot of you will agree. It's not that I spend a lot of time on my appearance, nor do I constantly look in the mirror (or the modern-day equivalent, take selfies), but on a subconscious level, when my hair starts to get overgrown, it drags me down. How else to explain the fact that when I put on my capris to go run the next day, I didn't get that UGH, my stomach is so gross feeling...and believe me, nothing else had changed aside from the hair - I didn't miraculously have a body transformation overnight.
A real after - in the parking lot of the grocery store. Had to document this style as I probably won't be able to replicate it.
Couple of days later, this is what I was hoping for - nice curls with minimal effort (aka all I have to do is scrunch my hair a bit while I blow dry).
I don't know why something like hair can lift me up or bring me down, but that was the only change I made last week, and my mood did a 180. For good mental health, I'm glad I always schedule my next hair appointment when I'm there for my current one because obviously this is something I need to keep up with. And I guess it could be anything - getting your eyebrows done, or your regular manicure, or whatever - but somehow, just a little bit of beauty pampering really makes a difference, doesn't it?
It's often the little things that do the trick, like in your case going to the hairdresser. I hardly dare saying it but I don't like going to the hairdresser LOL. I do it every 8 weeks for cutting my hair and colouring but it's not something I enjoy.
ReplyDeleteI do get the feeling though that if you feel blah something like this can lift your mood. For me it's often a walk or a recipe that turns out delicious or a new book.
It doesn't matter what it is, as long as it works for you.
By the way: love your hair this way.
You are right - find whatever works for YOU to life your mood. :)
DeleteYou are so right about the benefits of a little pampering. I need a pedicure so badly! I wanted to go yesterday, but I was not feeling well at all--so I spent the day on the couch. Now I need to figure out when I can get it done before I go to Florida this weekend!
ReplyDeleteIs there such a thing as a pedicure emergency? I think so, especially when you're headed to Florida!
DeleteYes a little pampering goes a long way to lift our mood! Thanks for the reminder!
ReplyDeleteI love your new "do" it looks really nice on you.
Thanks, Susan. :)
DeleteI never take the time to do stuff like that, but I am always happy when I do. I've had a $200 message gift certificate for over two years that I have yet to use! I need to get on that.
ReplyDeleteLove, love your hair! #jealous of the natural curls :D
OMG Biz, go use that gift certificate! I bet if it was to a cooking store, you'd have used it already. ;)
DeleteA haircut does the same thing for me.....new clothes too (although I hate to shape for them!)
ReplyDeleteSame here with the new clothes - it's harder to cull through the ill-fitting stuff but once I find something good? Cloud nine, baby!
DeleteI'm still cranky and I'm sure our weather lately has not been helping one bit. I have a hair appointment Thursday - maybe that will turn me around too.
ReplyDeleteYeah your weather would make me cranky too. Here's to Thursday - may you have no snow and a good hair appointment!
DeleteI got a haircut that I liked last fall, and miracle of miracles, I have kept regular appointments since then. It does make me feel better that my hair almost always looks decent, even though a lot of the time I just pull it back in a band. I'm going to keep it up too!
ReplyDeleteYep, forcing yourself to make that next appointment (and keep it) is huge. Your hair always looks good so I'd say you definitely have a great cut. :)
DeleteI forgot to say how much I like your new style. So flattering around your face!
DeleteLove having my haircut. It always makes me smile. I get highlights on my next appt. can't wait! It's like sunshine on a cloudy day.
ReplyDeleteGreat analogy!
DeleteYes, I think it can make a difference! although it always takes me a few days to get use to my cut (even though I always get the same style..lol). I think we just all have our own way of styling that our hairdresser can not replicate! I really like your "few days later" look.
ReplyDeleteThanks - I'm pretty pleased with how it's worked out.
DeleteLooking good, Shelley!
ReplyDeleteWhy thank you! :)
DeleteSmall things definitely help! I'm glad freshening up your hair made you feel better! I really like the color!
ReplyDeleteI picked up a new 12 color eye shadow palette at Ulta yesterday that I had wanted to get for a long time. When I got to the checkout they told me I had enough coupons on my rewards card to make it cheaper than just one thing of eye shadow - totally made my weekend, and I'm excited for all of the fun new colors I have to play around with :)
Ooh, I'm excited for you - new eyeshadow AND a deal on it as well?? So nice!!
DeleteWell you look gorgeous so you SHOULD be feeling pretty spunky! I can totally relate to the smallest things making a huge difference in mood.
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Your hair looks great! Self-care can do amazing things for our psyche.
ReplyDeleteYour cut looks great! Maybe my Mother's generation had the right idea! They had their hair "done" every week. Hmmm....
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