Bottom Left: two months after surgery; Bottom Right: three months after surgery
In March of 2016, I had blepharoplasty, or upper eyelid repair surgery. You can read about it here, but I also wanted to write a more detailed post about what I experienced after the surgery in the first week, and include some follow up pictures as time goes by. FYI, you can click on any of the pictures for a closer look.
When I was thinking about having this procedure, I couldn't find much in the way of first-person experiences online to read about - sure, there are a lot of before and after pictures, but I wanted to know what to expect, so I'm writing this in hopes of helping anyone else who might be considering having upper eyelid blepharoplasty done. If you have any questions, feel free to leave a comment and I'll respond, or you can email me (firstname.lastname@example.org).
Since I documented the actual surgery experience in my original post, I'll pick up with what happened afterward.
I had the surgery at TOC in Austin, which is about a two-hour drive from where I live. Prior to the surgery, I was told to bring a small ice chest with some ice packs for the drive back, as I was supposed to ice my eyes for 20 minutes every hour that day and the day following the surgery. I brought some gel ice packs but the surgery nurse sent me home with enough ice packs that I ended up just using them during the drive. I wore sunglasses on the drive home - I hadn't brought my purse with me since I didn't want Jeff to have to keep up with it while I was in surgery, so that meant I didn't have my own sunglasses with me; luckily the TOC has sunglasses on hand just for this scenario, so I was good. But if you're going to have this surgery, bring sunglasses with you for afterward.
I bought a couple of gel ice packs, and I also had some other gel packs that I'd gotten as freebies at race expos; I liked using these for ice packs instead of actual ice...they felt very comfortable and soft on my tender eyelids. I had a total of three sets for my eyes but by the end of the long day of icing, they weren't getting as frozen in the freezer, so I'd recommend getting a few more.
The animals really enjoyed my downtime!
I was very careful to keep my hands clean whenever I had to touch my eye area, and I had a stack of clean washcloths in my bathroom, so whenever I felt like I wanted to clean my eyes, I used a fresh one. I didn't rub them because of the stitches, but it was nice to hold a warm washcloth on my eyelids and get the ointment off, and start fresh for the next application. The ointment melts a little with your body heat, so I felt like a greasy mess for a week.
For recovery, I was told to avoid exercise for a week; in addition, I was not supposed to bend below my waist for the first week, and that turned out to be more challenging than the no exercise rule, because I'd inadvertently start to bend down to take something out of a low cabinet before remembering. Needless to say, my quads got a good workout anytime I needed to get down low. Mostly I just tried to take it easy; I watched TV, napped, and I knitted a bit. It wasn't a rough recovery at all.
I had clear dissolvable stitches in my incisions and they disappeared over about 10 days, which was interesting. Honestly, the entire experience was fascinating - I kept a hand mirror next to my chair to help me when I applied the eye ointment, but also, changes were happening so fast that I couldn't resist checking my eyes throughout the day. I'd been told that my eyes would swell and get red over the first couple of days, and then they would bruise, and also that everything would sink below my eyes...and that happened for real. I started looking really terrible, and then I started looking a lot better, all within eight days. They say proof is in the pictures, so here's how my first week looked:
Day One - several hours after the surgery:
Not too bad in terms of swelling; you can see the incision lines clearly. I didn't have any bleeding after the surgery, although they said that some might be possible.
My eyelids were turning red and they were definitely getting swollen; I'd slept sitting up to help reduce the swelling but it was going to happen, regardless.
I felt really good, but my eyes were looking angry red. The swelling was not only on my eyelid area and was beginning to show below my eyes.
Swollen, red and bruised - and I went out in public. I met my friends for breakfast and while I wore sunglasses, they all wanted a peek at my eyes. The swelling under my eyes is referred to as "water bags" and it was really impressive.
I was looking REALLY bad here! Not only was the swelling huge, but my eyes were a lovely combination of red and yellow. The bruising had dropped below my eyes along with the swelling, accentuating the water bags even more.
Still very swollen, but the redness is starting to go away. I had a doctor's appointment (not related to my eyes) so I put on foundation and blush, but I still wasn't cleared to wear any eye makeup, not that I would have wanted to - my incisions weren't completely healed at that point.
I thought I was looking better, but that afternoon, in the harsh light of day, showed otherwise:
OK, so not quite ready for my close up, then.
Morning - swelling was noticeably reduced on both my eyelids and below the eyes, and the yellow bruising was fading.
Afternoon - it was hard to get a good picture of this, but suddenly I had rosy red cheeks, and I wasn't wearing any makeup! The red bruising from my eyelids had dropped down to my cheeks. I looked like I had a fever, except that I didn't.
One week after surgery:
Much better! Swelling, redness and bruising were all disappearing nicely. My incisions were mostly closed except for a little spot at the end on one eyelid. I was allowed to discontinue using the eye ointment, but I continued to put it on twice a day for a couple more days, just to cover my bases. Once I stopped using it, my eyelids got a little dry and flaky, and they itched slightly for about a week. I ended up using some eye cream on them and that helped with the itching, but they were still dry for a while longer.
Two weeks after surgery:
The incision is pretty well hidden with a light covering of eye shadow, and if you didn't know me well, you'd think I looked normal. I can tell that my eyelids are still swollen, though.
Three and a half weeks after surgery:
Wearing no eye make up because I was going in for my post-op follow up. I had some concerns about one area near the inside corner of one eyelid; it felt like there was a little lump of something that showed, plus the last outer edge of one incision still seemed to be not quite healed compared to the rest of the incision. My doctor said I was actually still swollen and would be until about the three month mark, and what I was seeing was the swelling on the inside corner of my eyelid; that should resolve itself soon. The outer edge area is a tiny bit of scar tissue, and if that doesn't disappear with time, he assured me that he can take care of it if need be.
One month after surgery:
No make up. Incisions aren't very noticeable, and I'm mostly swollen when I first wake up in the morning. My eyelids are still a little bit on the red side, but once I put some make up on, they look good.
With make up. I don't own any concealer, so I just swipe my foundation brush across my lids for a base and that seems to neutralize the redness. Oh, I also realized that I only owned one color of eye shadow - you couldn't really see it, so I hadn't bothered with eye makeup much in the last decade or so. These pictures reflect a trip to the make up counter, where I bought a palette with 12 shades!
Two months after surgery:
I forgot to take the pictures until after I'd put on makeup, but you tell that the incisions are pretty much invisible with makeup on...and they are fading nicely. Swelling has gone down a lot; my eyes feel normal, but according to my surgeon, I still should see more reduction in the next month.
Three months after surgery:
No makeup. Incisions are barely there; and just like Dr. Durairaj said, the swelling has gone away, as well as the tiny bit of scar tissue on the outer edge of one eye. I am really shappy (shocked and happy) about that, as I honestly didn't believe him when he said it would go away. He was right!
With make up. And speaking of make up, I'm having so much fun getting to play with eye shadows and liner and actually SEEING it on my eyelids! I feel great and I feel like I look much more alert as a result of my upper blepharoplasty. Very, VERY happy that I had this procedure done!
Link to three month surgery update blog post here.
Here's some more before shots. Just call me squinchy eyes! You can see how droopy one eyelid was in the sideview shots - keep in mind, I'm wearing mascara here, which lengthens my eyelashes, and yet they're barely visible: